This is normal. Am I important? What will people think when they meet me? Simply working on my passions and having fun as I explore my potential is impressive enough. Were they all world leaders? Famous inventors? The best in their field?
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No, of course not. We teel naturally impressed when people are comfortable in their own skin and live up to their potential, whatever that means for them. Plenty of things can get in the way…. Or whatever else I feel like mastering that day.
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Our achievements are not lessened by the achievements of others. Do you feel the need may not understand why we want to learn to read Old English, or to paint using watercolours, or to grow tropical plants. Instead, when we start doing things purely to impress others, we undermine our fundamental strength. Demotivation and lack of joy can soon follow.
The solution is to remind ourselves of what we truly want, and to go for it. If anyone else is impressed and they will be! But, hold on… My status-obsessed-primate-brain is objecting again.
What about when we encounter somebody who is undeniably doing better than we are? Do you feel the need who is simply a better writer, or businessperson, or linguist? So how do we deal with this?
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Definitely something I struggle with. I never strived to be impressive because, when I told people what I did, being in a band was often the trump card.
However, since coming to the conclusion that I no tje enjoyed it — and having entered into many other pursuits like film-making, book writing, business starting — I have been left bewildered and very, very confused. I have spent the last two years scratching my head, wondering what the hell it is I do.
Or want to do. More recently, I have gone from zero to learning all about the stock market and investing.
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yoy Where the hell did that fedl from? But whenever I thought about totally committing to any one thing, a cold shiver came over me. Finding out about Multipods and sussing that I must be one of them was a real weight off my mind.
Extraordinarily liberating. Who knew? Of course, I am left with the residue of impressiveness, wondering why Do you feel the need no longer bow at my feet and linger on my every word. Soooooo needed to hear this!
Thank you for taking the time to address the issue. I thin this is definitely where I am. This also applies to being a beginner at something. Its sooooooo easy to give up because you see how faaaarrrrr you have to go that you stop based on sheer overhwhelm.